Women: How would you feel about this (men can answer too)?

My bf has been very critical of me lately. For example, I work at a call center doing market research and I need my voice to do my job. I had a sore throat and had to miss half of my shift because of it and my bf got mad calling me a weak woman because of this. I am plus-size, so he criticizes every thing that I wear (I have a great sense of fashion) an example of this is I was wearing a purple shirt and some jean Capri pants and some black tennis shoes (converse- chuck Taylor) and he criticized me for wearing black shoes saying that I was not matching (if I am correct black and white shoes goes with everything literally). Recently he got laid off from his job and has been very frustrated and I told him that this is an poor excuse to take his frustrations out on me because it wasn't my fault he got laid off. I have been there for him supporting him but this criticism is becoming too much and I feel marginalized. What should I do because I can no longer stand for this?