Wednesday, January 18, 2012

I'm 28, I want another baby desperately?

I have 2 kids (8y.o. twins) and I'm divorced from their dad. My partner and I have been together for 2.5 years. I want another baby desperately, and have for many years, I've always wanted a big family. My partner says he wants to have 1 or 2 with me but keeps saying time is not right, but I want it to happen now. I don't want my kids to be like 15 years apart and people think my older sons are the dad of my new baby! I know it's "wrong" to trick my bf, but I'm prepared to do this on my own. It's my life and I don't think I should have to give up my dreams for him. Women end up doing the majority of the work anyway, so shouldn't it be my decision? I don't think there is a right time to have a baby. Most babies are accidents, this baby would be very much wanted!!! My desire for another baby has consumed my life, I think about it everyday. I convince myself I'm having pregnancy symptoms and run and take pregnancy tests. My partner isn't a bum, he won't leave me, he will love this child. He has other kids and is a great loving dad to them. Should I just do this? Insightful advice please!!

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